My Wedding Brain

So, here it is. Exactly 58 days until our big sha-bang.

So nervous and excited and really hoping all this work will result in some of the happiest memories for us. My FH and I have been working long hours and have poured so much time into finding the perfect items for it, such silly little things like peach or nectar color?? Let alone all the money that just seems to be disappearing. We know that what matters most is being in love and uniting our family as one, its just the whole wedding process is more than I fathomed.

I mean, Ive cried twice about not knowing what our centerpieces will look like.

And cried again when they were finished about how beautiful and perfect they look.

Now Ive planned parties. And Im not talking about little kid parties at the park/restaurant, Im talking week long parties with a different theme each night including an entire house decorated with Halloween props and entrance is a costume, but this party was in June (I know, one of my favorite memories!), a poker tournament night, a day of play at the park including croquet, volleyball, a bbq, and more. I threw affairs that people still talk about this day, 5 years later! Parties of the year!

But! I haven’t thrown one in awhile….Im a little rusty. And a wedding? Where Ive literally been to two weddings in my life and have the slightest memories of them both because I was pretty young.

I had no clue what I was getting myself into.

My wedding will have many attributes to it, but I don’t want to give it away to the friends and family who read my blog. No sneak peeks 🙂 But I will day there will be lots of little nothings that remind everyone how much we love our families and the closeness of each other. Its a typically small wedding, expecting 60-80 people, and having it at a community center.

Im just such a planner, its to the point I don’t even have my wedding party assigned to much. My MOH, bless her heart, her main task is to take care of my meltdowns!! Im just so needing to be in control of everything, and my hand in everything, and picking it all out and making the decisions…about ev-er-ee-thing, that its officially draining me. I mean fifty….eight….days…away… And all of this work is to be shown. No more, oh I need to do this still. and cant forget about that!

 I started planning this in January. Yep. Seems ok, but for “FreshFest” my parties of the year week long event, I would plan a year in advance. I thought, well I was working and going to school and planning it, but since Im not in school and work at home, this wont be that hard. I wont be a bridezilla, Im calm cool and collected. Easy peasy. and I have been up until my stupid, Im not even cuss as much as I want to, because thinking about it is starting to piss me off lol, but my stupid computer crashed in June! And that means allll my work that I had saved on that POS was boom, gone. So I thought long and hard about everything I had and looked up even better ideas phew! But this past month. Its fucking crunch time. I gotta do dis.

Ive picked out almost everything-thing, and now its time to whip out some moo-la, and start paying my vendors the other half of what we owe. My FH, bless his heart too, puts up with my silly questions.

Should we have 8 in or 10 in dinner plates?

Which image do you like for our napkins?

How are you going to do our sons hair because hes walking down the aisle too and I don’t want you to put too much grease in his hair……wait why don’t you show me now so I can see?

Im crazy.

Call me Bridezilla.

Oh, and you wont believe all the crap Im forgetting. I said tomorrow is Monday, and tomorrow is definitely Thursday. I thought I had wipes when I left, but I didn’t and had to come back home and leave again! I forgot I went grocery shopping an hour ago….. Seriously?

But Its 58 days away, and Im waiting for my dress to arrive. Probably my biggest omfgoodness getthisshitherenow problem. And everything else seems so little now.

Im really hoping my dress hurries the hell up because…..Im about to find another dress in the meantime just to make sure I have one if it isn’t coming on time……

Hmm.. Maybe Ill do that now..

I mean I cant walk down the aisle in a tshirt right? Well I could but no. nanananana no.


Just an update of why Ive been so neglectful. Too busy online shopping.

Oh and another thing, after this wedding….Im almost positive Im going to have a newfound online shopping addiction. I mean packages twice a week, Im getting used to that!

Im positively-absolutely-coudnt be happier- stupid smiling excited about this wedding and know God has and always has blessed me with everything I need. Its going to be the way He wanted it to be. He has plans. Bigger plans that what I could dream of. Thank you Jesus.

And Happy Monday….Tuesday……Friday??

❤ ❤ ❤


Birthday EClubs

Birthday EClubs are my New Thing!

So, holy cow. Two hours spent and well friggin worth it.

YOUR ENTIRE BIRTHDAY MONTH YOU GET FREE STUFF IF YOU FILL OUT A  ONE MINUTE OR LESS FORM AND PRINT! Also, even if its not your birthday, you still get gifts from some places just for signing up for their eclub. Customer Appreciation Baby!

For my birthday month I will be recieving free breakfast, lunch, dinner, dessert, appetizers, makeup, and my hair done. All for free!

These are the places Ive recieved coupons for, and Ive sorted them by no purchase neccesary & with purchases/discounts & just for signing up.

No Purchase Neccesary, Birthday Month Only

Carrows-Free Dessert

IHop-Free Rooty Tooty Fresh & Fruity (Fruit Compote, Pancakes, Eggs, Bacon/Sausage, Hashbrowns i think, and Juice)

Del Taco-2 Free Grilled Chicken Tacos

QDoba-Free Chips and Salsa

El Pollo Loco-Free Chips and Guacamole

Wing Stop- Free Regular Seasoned Fry

Milan Institute-Free Hair Cut and Style

Ulta-Free Mascara

Buffalo Wild Wings-Free Appetizer (Onion rings, mozz sticks, chips and salsa, or roasted garlic stuffed mushrooms)

Papa Murphys- Free Cookie Dough

A&W- Free Rootbeer Float

Cinnabon- Free Minibon

Black Bear Diner- Free Bear Claw, regular or fruit filled, and free coffee

Weinerschnizel- Free Chili Dog

Boston Market- Free Individual Dessert

Subway- Free 6″ Sandwich

Port of Subs- Free 6″ Sandwich

Baja Fresh- Free Taco

Taco Johns- Free Meat & Potato Burrito

Jamba Juice- Free Smoothie

Dunkin’ Donuts- Free Coffee & BOGO donuts

With Purchase/Discount Birthday Month Only

Dennys- With purchase of 2 Entrees, free build your own sampler

Olive Garden-With purchase of 2 Entrees, free appetizer up to $10.00

Jack In The Box- BOGO Ultimate Cheeseburgers

Red Lobster- With purchase of 2 entrees, one free appetizer.

Carls Jr- Free Fry and Free Drink with purchase of 6 dollar burger

Fuddruckers- $7.00 for a 1/3 lb burger, fry, and drink. $.99 kids meal. And $7.00 for a black angus chili cheese dog, fry and drink.

Johnny Rockets- Free Hamburger with purchase of any entree and drink.

Cold Stone- BOGO any creation

Arbys- Buy small drink or small fry get a free Roast beef and cheddar sandwich

Century Theaters- Buy a movie ticket and get a free small drink and free small popcorn

Orange Julius- BOGO Drink

Dairy Quuen- BOGO Blizzard

Pizza Hut- Free Cheesy Bread with any purchase

Grimaldis Pizza- BOGO Large pizzas

Genghis Grill- BOGO Stir Fry Bowl

Panda Express- BOGO Entree

PF Changs- Free Appetizer

Applebees- Buy 1 entree, recieve 1 free appetizer

Sephora- With any $10.00 purchase, recieve a VIP Beauty Box, including mascara, lipstick, lip liner, eyeliner, and eye shadow. ($50+ value) also, order online and recieve 3 free gifts from their selection including night creams, wrinkle creams, pore perfectors, perfume, and makeup!

Just For Signing Up

IHop- Free Rooty Tooty Fresh and Fruity (I have a description above)

Carrows-Free Dessert (No purchase neccesary)

Dennys- 20% off entire check

Weinerschnitzel- Free Chili Dog

Baja Fresh- Free Taco

Chilis- Free Chips and Salsa

Dairy Queen- BOGO Blizzard

Pizza Hut- Free Cheese Sticks (Cheesy Bread) on your next order

Papa Murphys- Buy one pizza, get 50% second

Jamba Juice- $2.00 off coupon

Century Theaters- Weekly Coupons!! List your three favorite theaters and recieve a coupon to each, ex. free popcorn! And you’ll get a coupon for each theater, every week!!


Chuck E Cheese- Kids Birthday Week get 10 free tokens

Toys R Us- Coupon for gift of the Month

KMart- $5 gift card and their birthday kid bundle thing- comes with a crown a toy and a pack of stickers, crayons, and pencils

McDonalds- Free Kids Meal

Jamba Juice – $3.00 off next visit plus enter phone number & earn points to get discounts


Incredible, I know.

Dont you just wanna marry me now 🙂

Remember, these exclusive deals are only when you sign up online sometimes even in stores, for your local restaurants and beauty places. Alot of them will have you choose the actual store location from a list & will designate your coupon to only that store.

Tell me about your discounts youve recieved!

There were also some discounts I recieved that didnt really interest me:

World Market-$10 off a purchase of $50 or more

KFC- Join the Landrys Card Club for a one time fee of $25 and recieve $25 credit for signing up plus $25 credit every year on your birthday




Also, this is just what Ive recieved so far! My birthday isnt for another two weeks, and Im sure Ill be getting a flow of more coupons when its actually my birthday week. Ill update it again soon, but can you believe this??


Celebrity Countdown

Alright friends! Ive come up with a celebrity countdown and want to know your answers. I left my answers in the comment section so go ahead and post yours too!

And the countdown begins!

10 celebs you find good looking

9 celebs that are funny

8 celebs youd have dinner with (4 that have passed, 4 alive)

7 celebs that are graceful

6 celebs that should date (3 couples)

5 celebs youd party hard with

4 celebs youd dress like

3 celebs that would be good hang out buddies

2 celebs you wish didnt break up (1 couple)

1 celeb crush

Desserts I Love

1) Tiramisu

Coffee. Chocolate. Cookie. Oh my guh.

2) German Chocolate Cake

Chocolate chocolate chocolate chocolate chocolate chocolate ….coconut.

3) Baklavah

I love nutty flavors and i love the chewiness. My mom introduced me to it and i fell in love before i could even pronounce it!

4) Caramel Delights

Girl scout cookie favorite!

5) Cream Puffs

Mmm. My grandma made it best & i learned from her!

6) Store bought cherry pie

Why? My grandpa would bring it home almost weekly and he didnt like us eating sweets so it was really a treat! Theres nothing like the store-bought, jellied consistency. I make fabulous pies, but its too fresh. Store bought cherry pie just hits home.